Friday, October 28, 2011

How to Love!?

We often find ourselves on a search for that special someone. We feel as if there is an empty void inside of us that needs to be filled. Some of us feel as if they have to be in a relationship and then after being in several different relationships often ending the same, can’t figure out why our relationships never succeed. You are missing the most important piece. You must LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!! How can you love anyone if you do not love yourself? Take the time and get to know yourself. Learn your likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses, figure out your long and short term goals, and most of all figure out what makes YOU happy. Notice I said you, not everyone else. What do you stand for? What is your worth? Some often get wrapped up in the outer appearance; anyone can dress themselves up. After you attract the man for all the wrong reasons, and he gets what he wants; what’s next? We all have played the fool, but it is time to smarting up and make better decisions. Just because you made a bad decision doesn’t mean you can’t change the situation and have to stay in it. Best Regards------Malika